The only thing, and I mean the only thing, I nag my boyfriend about is his drinking and weight. I still need to assert what I am supposed to do. When you feel like screaming at him, count to ten. On an average Friday or Saturday night, I like to: a Chat with friends online. For a change you guys could try to be the perfect boyfriends. You have to be one step ahead of them.
You don't have to act like you love their hobbies, but at least try to understand why they're such a fan. Tell him he's amazing in bed and he'll start performing better. Men can also have insecurity issues even tough we act all tough, most of us are scared shitless! Talk to him like an child that's relatively stupid. I agree with the whole — look after yourself and treat yourself with respect and if your man loves you he should do the same. This leads to a one sided relationship where one person is comfortable and lazy and the other does so much that she is exhausted and has none of her needs met. There's nothing like smelling amazing for your guy. So u and ur terrible advice can go to hell This is seriously terrible advice.
Just let them know things that you like, if they love you they will try to do it next time. Try to understand where your significant other is coming from instead of blindly focusing on what you think you need. Annoying includes constant calls, getting angry when they spend time with friends, pestering them to spend more time with you, whining, complaining about other people all the time, asking for validation all the time for example, always ending your sentences with don't you think so? I can get my message across to any guy I want to. That is probably what bothers me most about this list. Everyone loves to get presents and giving them one shows that they mean a lot to you. Oh so now I'm becoming a doormat! If you feel insecure and doubt the strength of your relationship the second you're apart, then you have a problem.
This is how men operate: tell him he looks so nice every day and suddenly he'll start caring about his looks. Work on it if your goal is to be perfect for him, and erase any other woman from his sexual memory, forever. Feed his ego from time to time. Not only will this probably not work, your partner might be upset that you are using their friends. If you develop natural friendships with them, too, that's great! It's so much easier to love your girlfriend if she's beautiful and gives her best to stay beautiful for you. Just remember, you're in this together.
This dependency can be scary, and even evolve into neediness, fear or slight hatred. Or maybe it is because they like things a little more spicy. On second thought… you shouldn't be making a big deal about small stuff anyway, woman! Apply what you can to your relationship and you'll see immediate results. If you want to be a good girlfriend, then you have to make time to do your own thing, to hang out with your girlfriends, and to see your partner. Don't be afraid to be seductive. A relationship requires two people not you, if you want to be single then why even bother in reading this? Smell Like a Flower… Or something like that. But, you don't have to listen to every piece of advice from your friends if you don't want to.
In fact, a good man is also a feminist! Either way your advise sounds like what a pimp would say to a new born hoe I have an idea…how about instead of focusing on how to be a perfect girlfriend, try being a better person in general? Remember, it's a game of chess, not Mortal Kombat. Equally, don't tell them how to live their life either. I would go to church, study the Bible, and get married at church. When they need some space, don't take it personally—recognize it for what it is—their time to rejuvenate and to share different interests with others. If you feel the need to flirt with them, it indicates that you're not ready for settling into a monogamous relationship. He would rather stay with someone with humour. Women should be encouraged to be pure and chaste not only the body but with the heart.
I hate to defend this article, because some of it is completely ludicrous, and somewhat misogynistic. When it comes to flirting, I am: a A beginner, but I try. Getty Images Instead of getting caught up on superficial things, show you care with simple ideas straight from the heart. Reading this made me feel like women just obey and do things that only pleasure their man. Nobody expects you to live in the kitchen, but visit it every now and then.
In learning to accept their unique way of being, you'll also be learning more about yourself and ultimately whether you could see yourself spending the rest of your life with this person. Learn the Art of Productive Nagging. Loving him is the first step to being a great girlfriend, he needs to know and feel that you really love him, that there's a deeper connection — that he isn't just a rebound or just some guy you're with because you're afraid of being alone. Have fun while learning how to improve your relationships and love life. So, if you want to be the perfect girlfriend, get back to the kitchen, and stop wearing pants and flats.
A small token of appreciation is always welcome. Simply agree to hear them out and ask them in turn to try their best to get along with them. That will result in ultimately undermining trust for the long run. When you love yourself, you are more confident and you radiate a positive energy that draws people to you. And if my boyfriend really loves me, he will love me even when I have a few extra pounds.