We can't pick and choose who we like. After going through all of these steps, listing of pros and cons and meditating, you might just realize that neither guy is a match for you. I wonder why you are so reluctant to choose. But I like the thought of Person 1 too. Your decision could take some time.
Compare your two potential boyfriends to see who will be the suitor to win your heart in the end. Does he make you feel like he's only interested in you, or does he seem like he flirts with other girls all the time, and you're just another girl on his long list? I had an instant crush on A since the moment I met him, I tried texting more often but he wouldn't get out of his shell. Guys who are only interested in themselves can be pretty boring. If you want to avoid this situation altogether, date someone else instead. He has questioned me about my love for him since and won't allow me to talk to the other guy. You want a guy that you can trust, a guy who's not afraid to be honest with you, regardless of how much the truth hurts.
However, my knees go weak and my heart always races when I'm around this other guy. Who are you more attracted to sexually? While the coin is in the air, where do you instinctively want it to land? He felt like a family and I did and still do care about him. Lots of guys have an emotional side; the problem is they don't want other people to see it. There are other fish in the sea, and nobody should put pressure on you to decide things like this - and by trying to choose, you are only making things hard on yourself and may upset them. This is just as important as thinking about what you like about each guy. Know that choosing between two guys will affect your relationship with both of them.
Your friends are there for a reason: they offer shoulders to lean on, provide examples of how to behave, and give you advice when you need it. It sounds like your could be happy with either. Sometimes, the best way to choose is to follow your heart! I tried getting over him, but a part of me wants to be his girlfriend. So, the next time you're around each guy, think not only about why you like him, but ask yourself if he makes you feel confident, happy, giddy, and like a better person. If you wanna decide on which boy to make your boyfriend, just take the quiz and then go for your result! However, the thought of not having either of them in my life makes me feel very sad. I admitted my feelings to my bf who didn't take it lightly. This is going to give you a good idea albeit not concrete as to which guy matches you best.
The process of deciding to move out and moving out was very difficult and hurtful. So I dated r for 3 months and he broke up wth me. He has promised to change and love me the way i deserve to be loved. If he tickles you, is it weird or do you like it? What if both guys are best friends? If you have your mind made up about who you want to date, there's no use in asking your friends about their opinion. If both guys are completely devoted to you, then you have a tough task on your hands. Then guy b swooped in out of nowhere asking me out to the dance and we haven't stopped talking since. The missing part in our relationship was the fact that I never felt romantically about him and so two years later, I started sleeping with another man B, which developed into a relationship.
Dark hair and dark eyes or light hair and blue eyes? Your letter shows you to be an intelligent, thoughtful person who could make good use of some sessions with a sympathetic counselor who would push you to be honest with yourself. Once you've made your decision, stick to it. Soon, I decided to move out and live alone for some time to figure things out and decide who I wanted to be with. Here are a few ways to determine which guy to choose. We're born a certain way, and we eventually develop likes and dislikes. I hope you will consider seeing a therapist to help you sort this out.
A gives me love and comfort but I am not romantically attracted to him. Sit somewhere quiet, close your eyes and try to interpret the messages your heart is sending you. During that time, hopefully, one of the guys will do something good or bad to make the decision much easier for you. Again, you need your pen and paper. Are the compliments he gives you more than just about your body? Then, try to picture how you would feel without him in your life. If you truly loved the first one, the second one would have never came along.
I think he's gonna ask me out agian. You know yourself and what you have to offer a potential partner. Deciding what the most flattering hair color for you is almost comes down to a science. I am still keeping in touch with A every day and to be confused as to whether I should marry him. I have been seeing with B for almost one year now and he also proposed a marriage to me.
Is he sensitive about other people? Consider the positive qualities of each guy. That won't make the guy feel very special. When you're ready, they will be ready and respect that if they love you. I really liked if not even loved the first one tho and still do Then he asked me if we could still be friends and I said yes. I have been was in a relationship with a man for three years. Some of these red flags are often minor things, but they can also potentially manifest into other bigger problems so be aware. If you listen to your heart and your inner-voice, this is a sign that one guy is the right one for you.