I told my wife about my fantasy. He also tells me that there would be no harm in giving this man a kiss and a cuddle. I was disappointed when they had to leave that day, but looked forward to the many social events to come. Is he alot older than you? I'm sure that having sex with other men makes you feel attractive and wanted and that self confidence may help your long term relationship. But, here we were one fine day, discussing the possibility of making this happen. Come in and cry with me. I wanted her to experience everything in life, despite my own feelings, but today I am devastaded.
That night he had to go away for two days to attend a funeral. I asked them if they understood that I loved Sam. Im very very happily married, ive been married for 12 years to an absolutely beautiful , sexy, caring , perfect wife. Also, keep protected all the time. It's not like I advertise and My husband finds me way more attractive and our sex is better than ever! It's been safer for me to keep it as a private fantasy, and frankly that fantasy is an enjoyable one. Sexually we were very comfortable, and in our younger years dabbled in the world of swinging. I felt suffocated and trapped by my own emotions.
As the days passed he would come in and touch my back. He says he doesn't have any specific men in mind; he seems to just enjoy thinking about me sleeping with other guys. It was a non issue between hubby and I, as we were both aware the exchanges were to plan for the following weekend. But I worry that this would be unethical because I don't know her very well. Q Good day, Doc, I am bewildered by the fact that my husband wants to watch me having sex with other men. I am the happiest I have been in a long time.
Like you, she said no. To my surprise, he started drawing parallels between what he went through and what I was going through. Have you considered how you are going to feel should he if he's not already start sleeping with other women? However, I haven't had the nerve to tell her to sleep with somebody. I could not tell her not to do it, since I asked her on the first time at a fantasy level. Then, he wanted me back and I was too humiliated to take him back.
A reader, anonymous, writes 17 January 2008 : Well, my story is just the opposite. I had never had anyone so openly compliment me, I felt proud and filled with excitement. You are right the spark can wear off quickly with some. I share my nights between my boys, kiss them both when they walk in from work, and sit in the middle on the couch. I got some confidence from dating others, as my relationship confidence was low. If one of the two men had sex with you around the same day of ovulation, then the probability is that he is the baby's father. However, they do not actually want to split with their wives.
A male reader, , writes 8 March 2009 : I told my wife months ago that I liked the idea of her having sex with another man. In private, heterosexual men have been sticking things up there forever. Within hours, I matched with a few guys. She cut me off that night. Her now ex- husband wanted to arrange sexual encounters for her—and initially, she was game to give it a try. Men are quite visual and he may like being part of it.
The same night I met up with some of my girlfriends in town. But many doctors are puzzled because the operation doesn't carry a 100 percent guarantee, it's major surgery -- and women have other options, from a once-a-day pill to careful monitoring. She was not very happy sith herself for sleeping with 10 different men in the 3 years before she met me and probably wanted me to date others to help with her guilt. It is just a scenario. You're taking advantage of your husband. It does not necessarily reflect a guilty conscience. I do not know, but for know it is working.
A male reader, anonymous, writes 11 December 2010 : I was totally in love with my wife when we married and she was in love with me. She also thought that I would desire to date other women at a later time. She thinks that your husband may be having affairs with other women and is just trying to cleanse his conscience by allowing you to do the same. Even if you and he do not stay together ensure that. I apologized and we went away on holiday.