The G-spot feels like this spongy area. If you know how to finger a girl properly, she will get addicted to you. To optimize her pleasure while simultaneously providing clitoral stimulation, try using a G-spot wand during oral sex. If yes, you proceed to the next point. I tried the curling your finger thing, no dice. In fact, this may be why hitting her G-spot feels so good.
All of them are after the clitoris. Many say that having a butt plug in which provides a mild but constant prostate stimulation really changes the way that their orgasms feel. Once you get accustomed to it, you can change it up. Also, the G-spot is a pretty rough area compared to the smooth area around it. Even then, I suggest going slow and really opening and relaxing the cervix as you go. Berman says, but you should still be able to reach it.
Many people find that massaging the perineum is relaxing and pleasurable. Make sure and pay attention to your lover's expressions, she'll let you know how it's feeling. Missionary is a good position for many women because it takes off the pressure to perform, giving her the chance to focus on her own pleasure. Conclusion You now have all the tools you need to properly finger a girl and bring her waves of ecstatic pleasure. This gives you even deeper penetration, allowing the head of your penis to more easily curve toward the inside of her vagina. If you feel yourself moving towards intense emotions and back away, the orgasm will stop. But the path it takes to get there is all about experimenting, communicating, and trying again.
Healthline and our partners may receive a portion of revenues if you make a purchase using a link above. At my last year, I was explaining this to everyone. Get Comfortable If you are exploring on your own, find a sex position you are most comfortable in where you have access to your bum. Are you both lying down in bed? This take on the classic spoon position gives you that Sunday morning feel of lazy sex while simultaneously giving her the opportunity to lie back and focus on her pleasure. The prepuce is just a fancy term for the clitoral hood.
At first he actually hit it too hard and I pulled away. A lot of guys read a ton of stuff online but never apply it. The same goes for your genitals as well. Circle her cervix with a finger or two; once you make direct contact, slowly glide over the area, applying firm, gentle pressure, until she feels a deep, almost total-body pleasure. Yes, that's the best way.
A woman in one of my classes used one, and her partner had to tell her to stop because she was getting too tight. Enter her at a perpendicular angle. Ready to start searching and blow her mind — and possibly even give her multiple orgasms? But the area just above her glans is an even hotter spot for many women. I suggest you bookmark this article and read it the next couple of times before you are about to have sex. But for many, the prostate is a source of deep sexual pleasure. When it comes to anal sex, please, please, please use lube. Women tend to have a more pronounced pubic bone than guys, which is part of the reason why her G-spot can be so sensitive.
To find it, lift that hood up and you should feel something like a small button of nerves underneath your finger. Once you find it, use your index and middle finger to rub circles or back-and-forth motions, or use your tongue. The main way to stimulate her G-spot is by using a come hither motion with your one or two fingers. Do you achieve cervical orgasm via vaginal penetration? And it will block these deeper orgasms. Do you want to be great in bed? I use Astroglide, but almost any inexpensive lube will do. Since the A-Spot is slightly above the cervix, it may be easier to reach at a slight angle in this position, so experiment with lying flat and also lifting the hips with positioning pillows such as the Liberator Wedge. Finding the A-Spot A great way to get a handle on where exactly this fine piece of vaginal real estate resides is to be able to identify the cervix.
For starters, it can be hard to locate. O'Reilly suggests throwing a into the mix. While there is an increase of pleasure, rather than it being focused in the clitoris, you feel that spread all over your body and then explode into waves you feel from your head to your toes. You might wonder if that is even necessary. You can add a pillow under her hips if she has any lower back pain. Now, what position you choose depends entirely on your situation. I hope I convinced you of the importance of learning how to stimulate her G-spot.
That said, most women do find vaginal penetration combined with clitoral stimulation incredibly pleasurable — and when it comes to helping her have an orgasm during sex, you'll want to pull out all the stops to up your partner's chances. Every cell in your being feels cleansed and revitalized. For example, you can limit finger movement to a half an inch area, or you can stroke the entire G-spot. How To Finger A Girl: The G Spot Stimulation Ah the fabled G spot. So, how does this thing work? With practice, you'll be able to make her climax through g-spot stimulation as easily as you give her a clitoral orgasm. Because this area is so deep in her vagina, your girl has probably never had her deep spot stimulated. You could also use a jade egg.