But they should not be removing personal possessions. These are just some highlights to think about and talk about with your estate planner, insurance agent, financial advisor and your family or close friends. Whether its gold, real estate, complex structured investments or an array of other vehicles, the common pitch is big returns with little risk. He looks like a homeless man who is not being manicure properly. The evidence I found shows that his bank cards have about 70 grand on them. I never should have married him.
If there is no estate open, then find a lawyer who knows probate litigation in the county in which your father lived and ask them if there is any potential for recovery. The other option if you suspect theft from a vulnerable adult is to go to the police and file a report. Legal Guardians appointed by probate courts steal from vulnerable adults they are supposed to protect. If your lawyer sees something wrong with how money is being managed, they can advise you immediately on what actions you can take to correct the problem. He and I shared many of the same interests and we spent a few months a year for the past 6 years having fun.
When I asked who wrote his obituary , I was told my uncle did. Filing a police report if personal property was taken and you can prove they had access and did these other crimes also helps — with insurance. We had been on this heartbreaking journey of chemo treatments with my mother for many months which turned into several years. The author is a Forbes contributor. His body was not even cremated and someone came around and kicked down his door and looted his place. While I am trying to keep up with all the harassment from this action, the adult children gain favor in the courts, and I lose all my rights as a wife.
One sister has lived very well but not saved a dime. A trustee, however, is bound by the terms of the trust and may not respond to you or tell you anything because you are not a beneficiary of the trust, otherwise he would have been in contact with you long before now. The marriage proceeded as Francine had planned. There are almost always exceptions to every rule. At some stage the sociopath will try to gain control of this for their own personal gain. Can anyone help with info. I have always helped my parents with all of their business finances when they had their own landscaping and excavating business for 18 successful years.
The other issue is the lawyer who drafted the new will should be questioned if you challenge the will — why would your mother all of a sudden disinherit her child for a stranger. That last bit is the key. Your widowed dad seems to have new pep. Financial exploitation can happen to anyone, anywhere, anytime. Moms or dads may interpret our concern as self-interest. That is very hard to do I love this man and he was so good to me, I hate to leave him.
Can we say gold digger in training…. She starting talking about having a kid and getting married and I am not even divorced yet. I heard she is married to a man who provides her with a very high standard of living. Two daughters appealed to elder-law attorney Shirley Whitenack of Florham Park, N. She was 47, physically and mentally strong, and lived with him twenty four hours a day. This ring was a plane silver ring, very simple indeed, and the will did show that promise to be true. Keep these documents in a safe place.
Lay it all out for the court with as much written documentation as you can find. The son told his grandma this her mom whom they do not talk She told the ex of the will that she could not get these because she closed the account. Their ultimate goal is to have total control over your elderly relative. The Granddaughter not blood related came out and talked him into living with her in a funky used trailer on her property back over in Oregon. This woman claimed that she too would divorce someone if they became disabled.
Dumb money moves everyone makes Boneheaded financial decisions and how you can avoid them. I know I should contest the will, but is there ever a way to get back anything. The problem is going to be proving the theft of cash — hard to trace, and nearly impossible to prove. I have to travel to get to the courts over there. They are just pigs with lipstick on. There are certainly older gold diggers out there, too, and they will be even more obvious since they have to work even harder to look good.
Be dull and uninteresting in their presence, minimizing one-on-one conversations. Another possibility is that our mom is willingly giving everything to my sister. The law states that the wife is entitled to benefits even after death. This instance of pension fraud came to light when he was caught in his second theft involving a dead person. Verify marriage status, divorce and marriage history, career history, credit history, bankruptcy, ancestry, court records, previous lawsuits, registered businesses, property ownership, number and names of children and siblings in the family as well as trade and university qualifications. Or it could be Mom and her new beau, Bill.