You want to get off the on the right foot by making her laugh or having a solid first conversation, then follow them with being aloof and teasing her mercifully. Don't hide your interaction with the girls from each other. It takes a lot of motivation to build up confidence and though you might not have enough motivation to shave your head quit bathing for a month buy a dress and stroll through a large city which would give you social confidence , you still need quite a bit. After all, you haven't even gone on a first date yet. Play the long game Establish yourself first with cool male social circle. Doesn't matter if the first person you strike up a conversation with doesn't become your soul mate just so long as you are talking with new people. You of course want to make it to the top, have the highest social value and attract all the females.
It's actually very complicated, but at the most basic level, it works like this: Women are primarily attracted to social power and influence; men are primarily attracted to fertility and health which is why Western culture is obsessed with making women look youthful. One amazing thing about Bangkok is the online scene. In my opinion, it might bring your website a little bit more interesting. It is likely that girls in such places will be at least somewhat more receptive to meeting new people, since they are not on important business. I'll also send you extra tips on how to chat with girls for a while so you get their phone number. Pull yourself up when a girl throws you down.
Next up is the numbers game. Take her to your room at speed. Ask her for ideas on where to go, and offer to pay the tab as usual. But being rejected is part of life. It doesn't have to be anything especially exciting — just an invitation to talk. Feminism might have killed chivalry, but everyone still likes free stuff. And we're not talking about another line of mephedrone off the microwave—we're talking about an Uber account, a bottle of Glen's vodka, and the promise of a better party.
If you yourself fuck up, your group will lose some respect for you and be more hesitant to follow your lead in the future. Have fun with people and always remember to stay in style. But let's just clear up negging once and for all: It doesn't pique our curiosity, or make you seem intriguing. If she says yes, that's great — but it's still no time to unload anything on her. Try offering a few opinions on something inconsequential, such as the music in the background.
Don't be put off by her ice-maiden face, or the fact that her back is turned to you, or that she has been trying to get served for five minutes already and doesn't want to break her gaze with the barman: Smile at her. Have fun, be confident, and dance. You may tell her easily to wait for you after school or tell her to go to a café for a cup of coffee. I said can't do it not enough seat belts. But unfortunately, you're going to have to go through the exhausting game of bullshit badminton that is finding out whether we're single. If the girl you're talking to is interested, she'll hang on your jokes and laugh at them even when other people don't. Remember, looking at her while she talks and staring at her face are two different things.
The girl takes this as a sign that the guy doesn't like them. Just remember: the workplace is for work first; everything else is a secondary concern, no matter how interesting or important it might seem to you. Though it might work for a lot of people I don't think it works for me. V-necks are in style currently. It's more important to show that you're fun company than it is to explicitly state that you find her attractive, which should already have been obvious from the fact that you came over and started running your game on her.
You can with them or make them your girlfriends. Do you remember someone at school once saying lighting a girl's cigarette was like a third of having sex with her? You'll seem bolder and give her room to respond more naturally, which will help her relax and enjoy the talk. You don't need dragons or tribal patterns on your shirts to impress girls. It's harmless, but you want to make sure they do the right thing. You are not a real estate agent. Gather yourself and analyse where you may have gone wrong or maybe that girl was just out of her mind.
You will have groupie effect, which means lots of girls will put you in the small category of guys they want to fuck. Is she only talking to me because I am standing in the doorway of the girls' bathroom? No matter what the result of your offer to take your friend on a date, the onus of responsibility is on you to be mature and graceful. Yes is yes and no means no. Remember, you should be having fun with or without her. Increase your chances by starting casual. A leader One thing that will help you pick up girls in the long term is your role as a leader.