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If she desires that you stay home and take care of the house, do so. Your letter should be very clear about the sorts of things that you can do for them. And who knows, should I find someone like that, it could very well be the nudge I need to move. There is one contradiction in commercial Femdom: if the girl satisfies the desire of submissive through money, then it is the submissive who is in real control. Have you fancied taking the opportunity to actually chat with a real life dominatrix and maybe ultimately have some verbal fun with one? They are mostly really happy to help make new people feel more comfortable sometimes groups have greeters who meet and introduce people, sometimes the organiser will just keep an eye out for you and come and say hello and have a chat etc.
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