You will have to face the basic discomfort and dissatisfaction that is the hidden texture of your life. And yet dying is exactly what you are doing, from the moment you are born. But more often than not, the specifics of her complaint do not describe the real, underlying action or tendency that needs to be changed. If you are a man, you are probably more emotionally expressive and open-minded than your father was. He very effectively uses women as a tool to engage his male readers to comply with his prescribed set of actions that supposedly make him a superior man. He must be capable of not knowing what to do with his life, entering a period of unknowingness and waiting for a vision or a new form of purpose to emerge.
His ten books are published in more than twenty-five languages worldwide and are required reading in university, church, and spiritual center courses. Witness the masculine popularity of war stories, dangerous heroism, and sports playoffs. One thing almost freaked me out. Obviously, as a father or a householder, you will want to give your love, skill, energy, and time to your family. As a man, you probably want to find the cause for the problems in your life. What do women really want? Feminine men are attracted to masculine women.
His way of thinking of how couples and what a Man is in particular should live his life are not suited to me. The Way of the Superior Man focuses on many of these issues which we often sidestep or deny. A happy woman is a woman relaxed in her body and heart: powerful, unpredictable, deep, potentially wild and destructive, or calm and serene, but always full of life, surrendered to and moved by the great force of her oceanic heart. It takes strength to be a real feeling person when so many obstacles are put in our path to hide our softer emotions. Finally, a clear and brilliant guide to unraveling the mystery of relationships. Even for a moment, can you feel that which makes attention conscious and aware? I read this for 2 years over and over again until I finally met David Deida. So, as a culture, we have advanced in terms of personal freedom, sexual equality, and social rights, but we have remained spiritually thwarted and afraid.
To be swept off your feet by a sensitive and strong lover or to feel your lover surrender, swooning in your arms? A woman's word is her true expression in the moment. As long as they shine the feminine light, you will feel the pull. Then, you will find that she trusts you less and less across the board. They are constantly changing, severe and gentle, and they have no single source. You can be a renunciate and live alone, apart from woman and world. David Deida writes an amazing book and elegantly describes the correct behaviors for living a powerful life with woman.
If a woman is free and radiant in her feminine energy, you are probably attracted; sometimes more attracted, sometimes less attracted, but always attracted, at least enough to steal a glance at her form. It gives great insight to men to feel certain ways in different interactions with women and the world itself. The first common misconception seems to be that Deida is calling for a return to 1950's stereotypes of traditional male and female roles when nothing could be further from the truth. Here, the gravity of deep being will attend you to the only place where fear is obsolete: the eternal free fall of home. Imagine failing at a major project, lying to your woman and getting caught, or overhearing her joke about your shortcomings in bed. Shout at her louder than you ever have and then kiss her passionately. They want to receive you for real.
That is, a masculine man being a masculine man, and learning how to treat a woman as a feminine entity. If you're curious about this book, read this book. It's never going to be over, so stop waiting for the good stuff. This book is for any guy who has ever tried in vain to understand women. And I ceremonial a lot better about my own too, and am guarded to I'm not the only superrior woman hiding in a lady that sometimes misses the old witness roles and holds my central at the center oc my spontaneous. Take care of the children and the house as much as you want. Although you may love these women and enjoy spending time with them, they don't arouse your passion as much as the women whose words you wouldn't trust to remain true for an afternoon, but who move their body in a way that drives you wild.
I will say that that the title,will tick off a few,let it, it is subtle way of how to be that man in every way, the friend,the worker,the lover and yourself,in a life conscious way, to be that someone you knew, deep down you knew but couldn't articulate it, to be yourself,the man you are. Your life becomes structured entirely by your favorite means of sidestepping the suffering you rarely allow yourself to feel. We could buy a dairy farm now! When you make love, make love from this source. When you deny your deep truth to please your woman, everyone will feel your lack of authenticity. Did you remember to pick up the milk on the way home? If you know your purpose, your deepest desire, then the secret of success is to discipline your life so that you support your deepest purpose and rrnriimize distractions and detours.
Or by fully immersing in 'The Way of the Superior Man' to get a pseudo-spiritual, eastern-angle of masculine and feminine energy dynamics. Yes, this book is controversial; deliberately and cleverly so. I could relate to almost 100% of what David wrote, and I mean 100% - there was hardly a single line in the whole book that did not resonate with me on the most intimate level. If you have a more masculine sexual essence, you would, of course, enjoy staying home and playing with the kids, but, deep down, you are driven by a sense of mission. Men who have lived significant lives are men who never waited: not for money, security, ease, or women. Often her feminine feelings will be a much better basis for a decision than your masculine analysis.
What happens when you simply, effortlessly, allow attention to subside into its source? If you are at your edge, your men friends should respect that, but not let you off the hook. The author clearly is not concerned with being politically correct in many contexts and layers the book with strong statements of gender differences in terms of energy and psyche that many readers will be challenged by. On the first point, I would suggest that the author's academic credentials are irrelevant. It is a very rare occasion when your analysis of her mood relieves her of it. However, the motive to dedicate time to house holding may or may not be symmetrical between partners, and this should be an ongoing discovery for each couple.
Submissive housewives became more independent and directed. And there are few times when his insights into the Masculine working the Feminine is wrong. She can relax and trust your Shiva core. Your life consists of penetrating each circle, from the outside toward the center. Let the emotions of her heart flow unguarded. He should lean just slightly beyond the edge of fear and discomfort. Both of you will be dissatisfied.