This is to relieve the pit in your stomach that won't go away, not for the angry rant you could spew at anyone. Woman A: No, not that I know of. The first time I did it to my girlfriend she gave me a weird look, but now I do it all the time and I don't mind when she does it to me. Since women are so different there's no way that you can really learn from tips or sharing stories. That sounds broad, but it really is the best advice I could give. Have you ever looked a vulva and thought, Nope? But if we're having hot and serious sex, I love when she pulls my hair while I'm going down on her. My girlfriend's looks like it's pulled taut from top to bottom, but I have more skin and tissue than she does and one side of my labia is longer than the other side.
Although I will say that completely bare kind of freaks me out, because you're a grown-ass woman, you know? Woman A: I have compared mine to other girls' right before I go down on them because I'm weird and curious. Woman C: Yes, only women. Woman C: Pull my hair. Best part about being a lesbian. How do you feel about being asked to do things differently? Some relationship dynamics don't really follow this, and that's okay. Woman C: It's evenly split.
Woman B: The first woman I ever slept with went down on me but I didn't return, so it wasn't until a few months later when I slept with someone else that I tried it. It dates from the 1940s, the variant from the 1840s. Woman D: Oh my god. I think I learned how with my first girlfriend, though, same way I learned to kiss well — lots of patient practice. I'm doing this to make you feel good, you know? Some guys don't like the taste of alcohol, some don't like sports, I don't like having my face near vaginas. To me, it's a really intimate thing to do, and when you've got that level of trust and comfort with someone where you're able to relax into it, it can make it 10 times better. This is a place for those that need support.
Woman A: The first thing I notice is whether it's long or short, or even on both sides. My eyes treat it like a bull's-eye and move outside to in. Woman A: I first went down on a woman when I was 18. How old were you when you first went down on a woman? Woman B: It's kind of a must for me. It might just be a dominance thing and the way our sex works, but I just like being in control.
Woman C: If it means a better experience for her, I'm all for it. What is the first thing you notice about a new vulva you encounter? Woman D: Never traded tips with anyone, no. I have never really seen a vagina that I would turn down, as weird as that sounds. I don't like my head being shoved places. How did you learn how to go down on women? I can't get off through penetration so I look forward to my bf going down on me before sex. Woman C: It usually happens. I had a general idea, but my friend basically told me to just go slow and feel it out.
This information should not be considered complete, up to date, and is not intended to be used in place of a visit, consultation, or advice of a legal, medical, or any other professional. It's different for them; you can do different things with your tongue than you can with your penis. Or message the mods and we'll do it for you. I've earned my red wings. Lot of people think it needs to be pointy, but not so much.
If so, there are things that can be done about those. Is that a thing people do? Cunnilingus sounds like a terrifying medical condition. It's not you, it's me. I also hate when she shoves my head down while I'm already eating her out. Maybe there are other parts of the relationship where the other partner is more on the giving end, hell, maybe not every relationship is 100% balanced as to achieve that you probably would have to keep notes and who wants that? I think you need to try and find an alternative to the taste like flavored lube or coconut oil but nothing with sugar it will give her yeast infections. Also, pro tip: Pay close attention to your rhythm and what gets the most response from her. Woman D: Consistency, in general.
I feel like that would be really mean if you just stop doing it. Do you have preferred level of pubic hair maintenance? Even if there isn't any tongue penetration into the vagina surface yeast infections are still possible. Woman A: Yeah, really just forcing my head harder into her clit. But the thought of having to put having to put my head back between your legs is enough to go flaccid and make me queasy. Woman B : Honestly, no, it all works for me.
Look at how well I dance now—Gene Kelly, eat your heart out! It's just another hole in her body that I put my mouth on. You're denying another person something they assuredly freely gave to you. Woman D: If she's good with it, I'm good with it. It doesn't bother me at all either way. Woman A: Obviously I wouldn't shame a woman for her personal pubic hair choices, or force her to change them. Woman B: Not that I can think of.
Also if she were to suck my dick she wouldn't expect me to eat her pussy. Whenever you want me to go down on you I drag out the foreplay as long as possible as a stalling tactic and unless you bring it up I never even mention or allude to the act of cunnilingus. But if you are determined to keep this to yourself and continue to soldier through it, I would suggest having her drink more water throughout the day and eat more fruit dilute the taste , try slathering her up with unrefined coconut oil also masks taste and works amazing as lube if you don't use latex condoms , and only eat her out in the shower after she rinses well. I haven't worked up the courage to tell you this, but I'm a man who doesn't like eating pussy. Attempts to address these things in the comment section will be removed. It's just too intimate an act.