A female reader, anonymous, writes 14 April 2009 : hey there!! It seems to me that so far this relationship is just dating and not to serious and you havent really expressed feelings of wanting to be with her for the rest of your life. A female reader, anonymous, writes 25 March 2009 : I am 17 soon to be 18 and my boyfriend of 8months is 26. For me, being 27, 18 is a little young just because at that age you don't really know what you want in life and I don't see any foreseeable way I could have similar interests. It depends on all sorts of things. I think that you two should sit down and see where the relationship is going. My partners parents were really supportive to, although his mum took a little while to come around.
Don't get down, cause you never know what can happen. It's only an age difference of 4 years. Many times you'll have a less mature 25 year old guy and a very mature 19 year old girl and they'll really hit it off. If you two listen to eachother and understand that your lives may be different, everything will work out. I think the one of the biggest reason we made it last as long as we did was through open communication right from the beginning.
He had been through heartbreak plenty of times before and she wasn't sure i was as serious as he might be. I am taking care of this child, providing for needs, educating, doing my job as a loving and responsible parent; it is my duty to set the rules and her duty to respect them. We do not have an attorney-client relationship by this response on the avvo website. I'm not the one who made this up. Any bashing, hateful attacks, or sexist remarks will be removed. If she was 15 or 16 and that was the legal age, would you still called both of them adults? Another thing is im still a virgin, and after being with a guy 7years my senior people dont expect that. So if you both want to.
These type of age differences will never last. I really am mature for may age, but have friends that don't understand this, and I would like an open relationship wiht some1, maybe nothing too serious but just fun and monogamous. Wait until she's 21 and can go out and do anything. What am I letting myself in for? I feel for my boy, because he was a great guy, who was open, diverse, and taught her things nobody else taught her about life and dating, and love. She fell in love with the 21 year old, and he loves her but she doesnt want to give it a chance to let it work, instead she has this infatuation over this 30 year old guy who she calls her soul mate.
He literally just turned 18 a couple days ago. This might be legal but it is still sickening and just wrong a 18 year old is still just a child compared to a 30 year old Well, that's your opinion and you're entitled to it. Some of these forum folks are just dying to criticize someone. Probably because many people fear what they don't understand. We both look the same age, so no one suspects anything. I've dated 18-19 year old girls and there's nothing wrong with it. Parents claim their 14-year-old daughter's 18-year-old boyfriend has harbored her when she runs away from home.
We are very open with each other and express our emotions and opinions all the time. Choose a peer, an equal, someone of similar maturity and life-experience. The 25 year old has a job, has to deal with real life stuff. But guess you have to find out. I have a friend who is 16, just turned 17, who is going out with a 23 year old and has been out with older guys. I was recently very sick for about 2 months i still am sick actually and constantly going in and out of hospital.
You asked him out for coffee. Because as far as what I can say about dating and living with my 18 y. As a parent you must do what you feel is best. In August, this 15 year old chick, cute as a button, blue eyes, wavy hair. I felt like he was a child molester and never went out with him again. He would then have a choice to make. My current girlfriend was 18 when we started dating I was 25 , and we've been together for 9 months now, she's 19, I'm 26 now.
I don't think its weird. Better yet, why don't you just put ear plugs in and put a blind fold over your eyes and ignore every subtle hint a woman gives you. It was something very significant in my life and my first love and I grew so much from it and learned so much. Soon i will be 18 and he will be 25 and this is probably a time we are worried about. Mod harassment may result in a permanent ban.